Are you willing to change? June 18, 2009
Posted by jameskilgarriff in Law of Attraction.trackback
Are you willing to change? When I am confronted with this question my initial answer is “sure”, however, when I dig a little deeper I realise that there are excuses and resistance running wild that need to be identified and released.
Whether it is a job change, a health change, a relationship or a change in my finances or just the decision to take full responsibility for my circumstances it all starts with a willingness to change.
I may not be ready to change something or I may have resistance to change an aspect of my life. However, for any change to take place there has to be a willingness to take back any blame for what may or may not have happened and that also means not blaming oneself.
For example, I made a property investment a few years ago and soon after spent alot of time blaming myself and the real estate agent for advising me in the wrong way as the property prices did not go up as I expected. However, as soon as I gave up the blame game and took full responsibility for this and was willing to see this differently things shifted and within a couple of months I sold the property in spite of the housing market down turn.
It started with a willingeness to change and take responsibility and from there my energy shifted in a supportive and positive way. My behaviour and actions reflected in this decision.
This whole process can start by making a sincere declaration such as “I am willing to change this”. Say it in the mirror for 5 minutes and with conviction and intensity. Say it with heart.
Let go of the outcome and be willing to change your thoughts or actions about whatever you are want to change in your life.
Seems easy to say but hard to realise. If you can do it really with heart, for sure you will act following this belief. However, the biggest problems in changing are 1. to analyse myself to see if i REALLY want it and 2. to concentrate.